dear me collective

dear me,
hear me.

a home to practice the art of slowing down.

Invitation-only gatherings in SoHo, New York.

We write “Dear” all day.

Dear team. Dear client.
Dear whoever needs something from us.

When was the last time
you wrote dear me,

read our story

upcoming gatherings

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past gatherings

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Pilates and rituals: mats in the living room
Pilates and rituals
art therapy: a sun, made by hand
art therapy
cacao ceremony: cacao
cacao ceremony
play. pause. reflect.: what gave you energy?
play. pause. reflect.
sound bath: bowls and the floor
sound bath
goal setting: the room, before
goal setting

your host

Meltem Cakmak Shuman, founder and host of dear me collective, carrying flowers through SoHo, New York

Meltem Cakmak Shuman

Born and raised in Istanbul, Meltem spent her career in brand strategy, first at Bayer and then at her own agency, MeltingPoint. She is part of a team bootstrapping legal practice management software in Türkiye.

Meanwhile, she opens her SoHo home to the healers and practitioners she trusts. She loves bringing Turkish hospitality to New Yorkers and helping them slow down and hear themselves.

the letters

Letters from our living room.

A lot happens before anyone arrives. I write about all of it: finding the idea, finding the practitioner, the guest list, the shopping list, and what I get wrong along the way.

I also share honest notes on the workshops and retreats New York is talking about: what it cost, what happened, and whether I would go again. No paid partnerships, only what I would tell a friend.

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